Everyday Parenting

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    Using AI for Homework Without Letting It Do the Work

    AI can explain a difficult math concept, quiz your child before a test, help them brainstorm ideas and give feedback on their writing. It can also write the essay, solve the problem and hand them an answer before they’ve had a chance to think. For parents, the challenge isn’t simply deciding whether AI belongs in homework. It’s helping children learn how to use it without handing over the learning itself.

    AI & Technology · Digital Habits

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    10 Screen-Free Activities for Young Children

    Children under 5 thrive best with hands-on play, movement and real-world interaction. This guide offers ten simple screen-free activities that support your child’s brain, body and heart, at home, on the road or while you wait.

    Screen Time

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    In-Game Purchases, Loot Boxes, and the Pressure to Spend

    Many games no longer make money only when someone buys the game. Children may encounter virtual currencies, character skins, battle passes, limited-time offers and loot boxes while they’re already playing. None of that means every in-game purchase is bad, but children benefit from understanding that the game isn’t only giving them things to play. It may also be giving them reasons to spend.

    Gaming · Responsibility

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood · 52 min

Your Hardest Days As A Mother, And What The Qur’an Says To You

52 min · In a class on the struggles of motherhood, Maulana Asim Ayub takes up a subject many people find hard to hear:…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 60 min

Our Ways in Raising Children, Part 4

60 min · In the final part of his series “Our Ways,” Sheikh Ali Hammuda walks through the stages of a child’s growth that…

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Everyday ParentingAll ages · 45 min

Our Ways in Raising Children, Part 3

45 min · In the third part of his series “Our Ways,” Sheikh Ali Hammuda completes his list of twelve habits he says wear…

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Everyday ParentingAll ages · 59 min

Our Ways in Raising Children, Part 2

59 min · In part two of his series “Our Ways,” Sheikh Ali Hammuda describes three styles of parenting: the firefighter who steps in…

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Everyday ParentingAll ages · 58 min

Our Ways in Raising Children, Part 1

58 min · In the first part of his series “Our Ways” on raising children, Sheikh Ali Hammuda argues that raising righteous, capable children…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen

15 Ways to Teach Like the Prophet ﷺ

Michael Abraham walks through fifteen moments from the teaching of the Prophet ﷺ, as reported in hadith, and draws parenting lessons from each. He…

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Everyday ParentingMiddle Childhood – Teen

One Look in the Classroom

Michael Abraham, an educator who works with schools on instructional supervision, describes what he has noticed in classrooms about how a father’s presence or…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen

Fatherhood & Islam

In a talk he gave at a convention, Imam Tom Facchine reflects on what it means to be a father in Islam. He describes…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen

The Role of Fathers in Islam

In this talk, Shaykh Waleed Basyouni speaks to three audiences about the role of fathers: fathers, mothers, and children. He encourages fathers to see…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 48 min

Kids Need Less: Here’s Why

48 min · Do our children really need more, or less? In this conversation with Lauren Booth, educator and children’s author Anisa Rasul shares…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 22 min

Be Gentle: A Talk for Parents and Teachers

22 min · Gentleness beautifies everything it touches. Ustadha Hosai Mojaddidi explains why knowing your own temperament is the first step toward the Prophet’s…

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Everyday ParentingPreteen – Teen · 9 min

Handling Difficult Teenagers

9 min · A teenager once mocked the call to prayer, loudly, in front of the Prophet ﷺ. Instead of punishing him, the Prophet…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 5 min

Growing Up in a Dysfunctional Family

5 min · In this short clip, Sheikh Belal Assaad describes five patterns that can make family life unhealthy: substance abuse, constant conflict, violence,…

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Everyday ParentingMiddle Childhood – Teen · 50 min

When Not to Homeschool

50 min · Homeschooling isn’t right for every family or every season of life. In this candid talk, Shaykh Ismail Kamdar, a long-time homeschooling…

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Everyday ParentingMiddle Childhood – Teen · 46 min

Reflections: 12 Years of Homeschooling

46 min · As his eldest son prepares to graduate, Shaykh Ismail Kamdar looks back on twelve years of homeschooling his children: why he…

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Everyday ParentingMiddle Childhood – Teen · 38 min

Making Homeschooling Work in 2026

38 min · After more than a decade of homeschooling his four children, Shaykh Ismail Kamdar shares eight lessons for making homeschooling work today:…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 9 min

Why Don’t Kids Respect Elders Anymore?

9 min · Children today spend most of their time with peers, and many rarely spend real time with grandparents or older people. In…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Preteen · 19 min

How to Say No to Your Kids and Get Them to Listen

19 min · Saying no is part of loving your child, but how do you set limits without becoming harsh, or giving in to…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Middle Childhood · 12 min

When Your Child Misbehaves, Don’t Do This

12 min · When a child forgets, refuses, or pushes back, it’s easy to react with a lecture, a guilt trip, or a rebuke,…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Middle Childhood · 22 min

Teach Your Child This Before Anything Else: Adab

22 min · When a scholar was asked what parents should teach their children first, he didn’t name a fiqh book or a list…

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Everyday ParentingAll ages · 9 min

Your Motherhood Routine Is Actually Worship

9 min · When worship feels like one more thing on a mother’s to-do list, it helps to remember that motherhood itself can be…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen

5 Habits of Parents Who Raise Responsible Children

Responsible children aren’t built by strict rules or constant reminders. They’re built through small, repeated, everyday choices, real tasks, small decisions, and mistakes children…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen

What Every Parent Should Fix While They Still Can

Dr. Daniel Amen, child psychiatrist and founder of Amen Clinics, lays out what actually builds a mentally strong kid: not more rules or more…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 56 min

The Brain Expert: How to Raise Mentally Resilient Children

56 min · In this wide-ranging interview, psychiatrist Dr. Daniel Amen lays out the framework behind his book Raising Mentally Strong Kids: get clear…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 6 min

8 Things Parents Shouldn’t Say to Their Child

6 min · Some phrases slip out in frustration and are forgotten by the parent within the hour — but not by the child.…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Middle Childhood · 13 min

The Secret to Helping ANY Child Follow Your Directions

13 min · Spencer Russell, a former kindergarten and first-grade teacher, used to think some kids simply couldn’t focus — until he noticed his…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Middle Childhood · 10 min

The Japanese Rule to Obedient Children

10 min · Emma Hubbard breaks down shitsuke, a Japanese concept of discipline built on instruction and practice rather than punishment. In her explanation,…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 7 min

5 Parenting Styles and Their Effects on Life

7 min · Using four imagined children, this explainer walks through psychologist Diana Baumrind’s four classic parenting styles, authoritarian, permissive, authoritative, and neglectful, and…

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Everyday ParentingPreteen – Teen · 35 min

Raising Teenagers: Some Practical Advice

35 min · Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi opens with a confession: 25 years ago, as a new student of Islam, he went looking for…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 30 min

How to Raise Righteous Muslim Children in the West

30 min · Hisham Abu Yusuf structures his talk around a saying he attributes to Ali ibn Abi Talib: play with children for seven…

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Everyday ParentingMiddle Childhood – Teen · 11 min

Why Is My Teenage Daughter So Rude to Me?

11 min · Asked how to handle a rude, adolescent daughter, Sheikh Assim Al-Hakeem turns the question back on the parent. He describes his…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 36 min

How to Raise Mentally Resilient Children (According to Age in Islam)

36 min · Closing a four-part series, Sheikh Ali Hammuda maps a child’s development onto six age brackets drawn from the Quran and hadith,…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 12 min

Advice for Mothers: Leading by Example

12 min · Dr. Haifaa Younis opens with a hadith: nothing brings a servant closer to Allah than fulfilling the obligations He’s made binding.

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 16 min

How to Connect With Kids: 3 Principles from a Principal

16 min · School principal James Cowper argues that kids today aren’t disconnected — they’re deeply connected to one another — and asks what…

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Everyday ParentingMiddle Childhood – Teen · 18 min

Teaching Methods for Inspiring the Students of the Future

18 min · Though addressed to teachers, veteran biology teacher Joe Ruhl’s TEDx talk offers a framework any parent can use at home: what…

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Everyday ParentingMiddle Childhood – Teen · 14 min

How to Raise Successful Kids — Without Over-Parenting

14 min · Former Stanford dean Julie Lythcott-Haims argues that over-parenting, not under-parenting, is quietly damaging a generation of kids. She describes the ‘checklisted…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 21 min

How to Talk So Kids Will Actually Listen — Backed by Science

21 min · Communication professor Bruce Lambert presents five principles drawn from Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish’s parenting book How to Talk So Kids…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood – Teen · 21 min

Teaching Kids Finance: How to Be a Great Financial Role Model

21 min · Financial planner Chad Willardson joins Smart Money Parenting host Scott Donnell to unpack what it actually means to be a financial…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood · 8 min

How Fathers Can Support a Baby’s Early Development

8 min · Drawing on developmental research, including a 2017 study led by Vaheshta Sethna and Paul Ramchandani, the video explores associations between fathers’…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood · 12 min

Why Dutch Kids Sleep Through the Night

12 min · This video draws on cross-cultural research comparing Dutch and American infant sleep patterns, reporting that Dutch babies sleep meaningfully more per…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood · 8 min

How ‘Serve and Return’ Supports Your Baby’s Developing Brain

8 min · This video centers on serve and return: the everyday back-and-forth between a baby’s small signals and a parent’s response. It looks…

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Everyday ParentingEarly Childhood · 15 min

6 Developmental Red Flags Parents Accidentally Celebrate

15 min · Emma Hubbard, a pediatric occupational therapist, walks through six patterns she encourages parents to pay closer attention to. They are an…

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