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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 60 min

Our Ways in Raising Children, Part 4

60 min · In the final part of his series “Our Ways,” Sheikh Ali Hammuda walks through the stages of a child’s growth that…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen

15 Ways to Teach Like the Prophet ﷺ

Michael Abraham walks through fifteen moments from the teaching of the Prophet ﷺ, as reported in hadith, and draws parenting lessons from each. He…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen

Fatherhood & Islam

In a talk he gave at a convention, Imam Tom Facchine reflects on what it means to be a father in Islam. He describes…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen

The Role of Fathers in Islam

In this talk, Shaykh Waleed Basyouni speaks to three audiences about the role of fathers: fathers, mothers, and children. He encourages fathers to see…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 48 min

Kids Need Less: Here’s Why

48 min · Do our children really need more, or less? In this conversation with Lauren Booth, educator and children’s author Anisa Rasul shares…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 22 min

Be Gentle: A Talk for Parents and Teachers

22 min · Gentleness beautifies everything it touches. Ustadha Hosai Mojaddidi explains why knowing your own temperament is the first step toward the Prophet’s…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 14 min

Your Inner Child Isn’t One Child

14 min · Ever snapped at your kids in a way far too big for the moment? Dr.

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Faith & IdentityMiddle Childhood – Teen · 46 min

Reflections: 12 Years of Homeschooling

46 min · As his eldest son prepares to graduate, Shaykh Ismail Kamdar looks back on twelve years of homeschooling his children: why he…

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Faith & IdentityMiddle Childhood – Teen · 38 min

Making Homeschooling Work in 2026

38 min · After more than a decade of homeschooling his four children, Shaykh Ismail Kamdar shares eight lessons for making homeschooling work today:…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 9 min

How to Teach Your Kids to Handle Conflict Prophetically

9 min · Disagreements are part of life, between siblings, friends, neighbors, and even between parents and children. In the final episode of Raising…

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Faith & IdentityMiddle Childhood – Teen · 11 min

How to Teach Your Kids Gratitude (Shukr)

11 min · In a world of constant comparison and instant gratification, children can easily feel dissatisfied, and even feel let down by Allah…

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Faith & IdentityMiddle Childhood – Teen · 12 min

Who Are Your Child’s Friends?

12 min · Friends shape who our children become, and no friendship is neutral. In Episode 7 of Raising Beautiful Hearts, Ustadha Hina Khan-Mukhtar…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 9 min

Why Don’t Kids Respect Elders Anymore?

9 min · Children today spend most of their time with peers, and many rarely spend real time with grandparents or older people. In…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Middle Childhood · 11 min

Why Won’t My Child Say Salam?

11 min · Many parents feel embarrassed when their child won’t say salam. In Episode 4 of Raising Beautiful Hearts, Ustadha Hina Khan-Mukhtar and…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Preteen · 19 min

How to Say No to Your Kids and Get Them to Listen

19 min · Saying no is part of loving your child, but how do you set limits without becoming harsh, or giving in to…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Middle Childhood · 12 min

When Your Child Misbehaves, Don’t Do This

12 min · When a child forgets, refuses, or pushes back, it’s easy to react with a lecture, a guilt trip, or a rebuke,…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Middle Childhood · 22 min

Teach Your Child This Before Anything Else: Adab

22 min · When a scholar was asked what parents should teach their children first, he didn’t name a fiqh book or a list…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen

5 Duaas for our Children from the Quran

A righteous child is one of life’s greatest joys, and a parent’s dua for their child is one of only three supplications the Prophet…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen

How Do I Raise My Muslim Kids In The West?

When a father at a Q&A asks how to raise Muslim children, especially daughters, in the West, Nouman Ali Khan reframes the whole question:…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 18 min

When You Feel Worthless, Know This: Allah Doesn’t See You That Way

18 min · A reminder that no one, adult or child, was placed on this earth by accident. Sheikh Belal Assaad explains why an…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 24 min

How to Deal With Anxiety & Depression in Islam

24 min · Ustadh Muhammad Tim Humble traces a Quranic framework for anxiety, depression, and grief, starting with a simple but easy-to-miss point: much…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 32 min

The Quranic Way to Escape the Age of Distraction

32 min · Shaykh Hamza Yusuf unpacks Surah al-Asr — just three verses, but so central that Imam Ash-Shafi’i reportedly said it alone would…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 20 min

Overcoming Fear: A Quranic Perspective

20 min · Many people quietly believe that feeling afraid means their faith is weak. Shaykh Dr.

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 57 min

Mistakes, Mercy & Motherhood

57 min · With her three sons now grown and leaving home, writer and educator Ustadha Hina Khan-Mukhtar looks back with unusual honesty on…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 12 min

How to Raise Children in Islamic Way? Great Lessons From the Mother of Imam Ash-Shafi’i

12 min · Imam Ash-Shafi’i — founder of one of the four major schools of Islamic law, and the first scholar to systematize the…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 33 min

Advice for Raising Steadfast Children in Times of Fitnah

33 min · Speaking to parents worried about raising children amid today’s competing pressures, Shaykha Umm Jamaal ud-Din — a Sydney-based educator, revert, and…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 14 min

The Simple Solution to Phone Addiction

14 min · Delivered as a khutbah, Ustadh Hisham Abu Yusuf’s talk names the smartphone as one of the biggest barriers between believers and…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 23 min

Advice & Tips on How to Raise Children in This Land

23 min · Since the Quran and Sunnah give broad principles for raising children rather than rigid, place-specific rules, Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi turns…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 12 min

The War on Kids in the Modern Muslim Family

12 min · Sheikh Mohammad Elshinawy opens with a question worth sitting with: people have parented successfully across nearly all of human history, so…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 30 min

How to Raise Righteous Muslim Children in the West

30 min · Hisham Abu Yusuf structures his talk around a saying he attributes to Ali ibn Abi Talib: play with children for seven…

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Faith & IdentityMiddle Childhood – Teen · 11 min

Why Is My Teenage Daughter So Rude to Me?

11 min · Asked how to handle a rude, adolescent daughter, Sheikh Assim Al-Hakeem turns the question back on the parent. He describes his…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 36 min

How to Raise Mentally Resilient Children (According to Age in Islam)

36 min · Closing a four-part series, Sheikh Ali Hammuda maps a child’s development onto six age brackets drawn from the Quran and hadith,…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 12 min

Advice for Mothers: Leading by Example

12 min · Dr. Haifaa Younis opens with a hadith: nothing brings a servant closer to Allah than fulfilling the obligations He’s made binding.

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Faith & IdentityMiddle Childhood – Teen · 18 min

Teaching Methods for Inspiring the Students of the Future

18 min · Though addressed to teachers, veteran biology teacher Joe Ruhl’s TEDx talk offers a framework any parent can use at home: what…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 21 min

Teaching Kids Finance: How to Be a Great Financial Role Model

21 min · Financial planner Chad Willardson joins Smart Money Parenting host Scott Donnell to unpack what it actually means to be a financial…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 80 min

Home Sweet Home (Part 3/3): Spouses & In-Laws

80 min · This is the final part of a three-part seerah-based series on building a strong Muslim family, focused on marriage and in-laws.…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 48 min

Home Sweet Home (Part 2/3): Children, Parents & Relatives

48 min · This is part two of a three-part seerah-based series on building a strong Muslim family, tracing the Prophet Muhammad’s example with…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 34 min

Parenting Strategies for Success in Life & Afterlife

34 min · Ustadha Hina Khan-Mukhtar shares five practical strategies she has observed in families raising confident, grounded Muslim children. She begins by emphasizing…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 61 min

Home Sweet Home (Part 1/3): Raising Children

61 min · Sheikh Belal Assaad, a family and marriage counselor, lays out the Islamic foundations of a healthy family. He traces the theological…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 6 min

Family First: The Prophetic Blueprint

6 min · Dr. Omar Suleiman connects gratitude and patience as two expressions of the same underlying quality, then applies this to family life,…

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Faith & IdentityMiddle Childhood – Teen · 17 min

You Are Valuable (This Is How Allah Created You)

17 min · Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan traces the Quranic account of Adam’s creation to explain why every human being carries inherent worth. The…

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Faith & IdentityEarly Childhood – Teen · 10 min

EP 11: Children? The Qur’an Has It All

10 min · Dr. Haifaa Younis walks through what the Quran says about children, described as a blessing and a source of joy, illustrated…

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Faith & IdentityMiddle Childhood – Teen · 57 min

5 Steps On Creating a Loving Family

57 min · Drawing on the story of Prophet Yusuf (peace be upon him), Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan explores five ways love is expressed…

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