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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen

15 Ways to Teach Like the Prophet ﷺ

Michael Abraham walks through fifteen moments from the teaching of the Prophet ﷺ, as reported in hadith, and draws parenting lessons from each. He…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 22 min

Be Gentle: A Talk for Parents and Teachers

22 min · Gentleness beautifies everything it touches. Ustadha Hosai Mojaddidi explains why knowing your own temperament is the first step toward the Prophet’s…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 9 min

How to Teach Your Kids to Handle Conflict Prophetically

9 min · Disagreements are part of life, between siblings, friends, neighbors, and even between parents and children. In the final episode of Raising…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Preteen · 19 min

How to Say No to Your Kids and Get Them to Listen

19 min · Saying no is part of loving your child, but how do you set limits without becoming harsh, or giving in to…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Middle Childhood · 12 min

When Your Child Misbehaves, Don’t Do This

12 min · When a child forgets, refuses, or pushes back, it’s easy to react with a lecture, a guilt trip, or a rebuke,…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Middle Childhood · 22 min

Teach Your Child This Before Anything Else: Adab

22 min · When a scholar was asked what parents should teach their children first, he didn’t name a fiqh book or a list…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen

How Do I Raise My Muslim Kids In The West?

When a father at a Q&A asks how to raise Muslim children, especially daughters, in the West, Nouman Ali Khan reframes the whole question:…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 57 min

Mistakes, Mercy & Motherhood

57 min · With her three sons now grown and leaving home, writer and educator Ustadha Hina Khan-Mukhtar looks back with unusual honesty on…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 33 min

Advice for Raising Steadfast Children in Times of Fitnah

33 min · Speaking to parents worried about raising children amid today’s competing pressures, Shaykha Umm Jamaal ud-Din — a Sydney-based educator, revert, and…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 56 min

The Brain Expert: How to Raise Mentally Resilient Children

56 min · In this wide-ranging interview, psychiatrist Dr. Daniel Amen lays out the framework behind his book Raising Mentally Strong Kids: get clear…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 6 min

8 Things Parents Shouldn’t Say to Their Child

6 min · Some phrases slip out in frustration and are forgotten by the parent within the hour — but not by the child.…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Middle Childhood · 13 min

The Secret to Helping ANY Child Follow Your Directions

13 min · Spencer Russell, a former kindergarten and first-grade teacher, used to think some kids simply couldn’t focus — until he noticed his…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 5 min

When Helping an Upset Child, Don’t Talk — Try This Instead

5 min · When a child is in full meltdown, our instinct is to talk them down — to explain, soothe, or reason with…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Middle Childhood · 10 min

The Japanese Rule to Obedient Children

10 min · Emma Hubbard breaks down shitsuke, a Japanese concept of discipline built on instruction and practice rather than punishment. In her explanation,…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 7 min

5 Parenting Styles and Their Effects on Life

7 min · Using four imagined children, this explainer walks through psychologist Diana Baumrind’s four classic parenting styles, authoritarian, permissive, authoritative, and neglectful, and…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 23 min

Advice & Tips on How to Raise Children in This Land

23 min · Since the Quran and Sunnah give broad principles for raising children rather than rigid, place-specific rules, Shaykh Dr. Yasir Qadhi turns…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 12 min

The War on Kids in the Modern Muslim Family

12 min · Sheikh Mohammad Elshinawy opens with a question worth sitting with: people have parented successfully across nearly all of human history, so…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 16 min

How to Connect With Kids: 3 Principles from a Principal

16 min · School principal James Cowper argues that kids today aren’t disconnected — they’re deeply connected to one another — and asks what…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 21 min

How to Talk So Kids Will Actually Listen — Backed by Science

21 min · Communication professor Bruce Lambert presents five principles drawn from Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish’s parenting book How to Talk So Kids…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 21 min

Teaching Kids Finance: How to Be a Great Financial Role Model

21 min · Financial planner Chad Willardson joins Smart Money Parenting host Scott Donnell to unpack what it actually means to be a financial…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 80 min

Home Sweet Home (Part 3/3): Spouses & In-Laws

80 min · This is the final part of a three-part seerah-based series on building a strong Muslim family, focused on marriage and in-laws.…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood – Teen · 48 min

Home Sweet Home (Part 2/3): Children, Parents & Relatives

48 min · This is part two of a three-part seerah-based series on building a strong Muslim family, tracing the Prophet Muhammad’s example with…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood · 8 min

How Fathers Can Support a Baby’s Early Development

8 min · Drawing on developmental research, including a 2017 study led by Vaheshta Sethna and Paul Ramchandani, the video explores associations between fathers’…

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Parent-Child CommunicationEarly Childhood · 15 min

6 Developmental Red Flags Parents Accidentally Celebrate

15 min · Emma Hubbard, a pediatric occupational therapist, walks through six patterns she encourages parents to pay closer attention to. They are an…

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