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Discipline that teaches rather than just punishes, at every age and stage.
Thoughtful guidance, expert perspectives, and practical reflections to help you better understand what your child may be experiencing.
▶45 min · In the third part of his series “Our Ways,” Sheikh Ali Hammuda completes his list of twelve habits he says wear…
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▶59 min · In part two of his series “Our Ways,” Sheikh Ali Hammuda describes three styles of parenting: the firefighter who steps in…
Read the Reflection →Michael Abraham walks through fifteen moments from the teaching of the Prophet ﷺ, as reported in hadith, and draws parenting lessons from each. He…
Read the Reflection →22 min · Gentleness beautifies everything it touches. Ustadha Hosai Mojaddidi explains why knowing your own temperament is the first step toward the Prophet’s…
Read the Reflection →9 min · A teenager once mocked the call to prayer, loudly, in front of the Prophet ﷺ. Instead of punishing him, the Prophet…
Read the Reflection →19 min · Saying no is part of loving your child, but how do you set limits without becoming harsh, or giving in to…
Read the Reflection →12 min · When a child forgets, refuses, or pushes back, it’s easy to react with a lecture, a guilt trip, or a rebuke,…
Read the Reflection →22 min · When a scholar was asked what parents should teach their children first, he didn’t name a fiqh book or a list…
Read the Reflection →56 min · In this wide-ranging interview, psychiatrist Dr. Daniel Amen lays out the framework behind his book Raising Mentally Strong Kids: get clear…
Read the Reflection →6 min · Some phrases slip out in frustration and are forgotten by the parent within the hour — but not by the child.…
Read the Reflection →13 min · Spencer Russell, a former kindergarten and first-grade teacher, used to think some kids simply couldn’t focus — until he noticed his…
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▶10 min · Emma Hubbard breaks down shitsuke, a Japanese concept of discipline built on instruction and practice rather than punishment. In her explanation,…
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